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What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?

The idea of living a very long life is supposed to sound magical. More time, more memories, more everything. I feel like I should love it. Honestly, though? I kind of hate it—and that feels wrong to admit.

A very long life sounds less like a reward and more like emotional homework. You don’t just collect experiences; you collect goodbyes. The longer you live, the more people you lose, and that weight doesn’t magically get lighter with time. It just stacks. There’s also the quiet fear of outliving your purpose—of finishing your dreams and then just… lingering.

Mortality gives life its spark. Knowing time is limited makes moments sharper, choices braver, love more urgent. If life stretched endlessly, I think I’d procrastinate meaning. There’d always be tomorrow, so today wouldn’t feel special.

And then there’s the physical side. Living long doesn’t always mean living well. The idea of slowly losing independence, strength, or clarity feels more exhausting than comforting. Both my grandmothers ended up in care homes and honestly it’s a fear.

I don’t hate life—I actually care about it deeply. That’s why I don’t want it watered down by endless time. I want a life that feels full, bright, and intentional. Not just long.

What cities do you want to visit?

Sure, my list might be a little basic, but who can resist the charm of these iconic spots? Each of these cities holds a special kind of magic for me, and I’m lowkey convinced I’d be a perfect fit in each one (fingers crossed, right?). So buckle up, because here’s my roundup of the cities I’ve got on my bucket list:

1. New York City, New York

Okay, let’s just address the elephant in the room. Of course, New York City made the list. Who wouldn’t want to visit the Big Apple? For me, it’s all about Broadway. Like, picture this: me, sitting in a plush theater seat, popcorn in hand, watching a mind-blowing performance that’s been the talk of the town. Whether it’s Hamilton, Wicked, or The Lion King, I know it would be a moment of pure, unadulterated joy. Plus, the thought of strolling through Central Park, grabbing a bagel from a cute little corner café, and living out my Sex and the City dreams just sounds like a whole vibe.

2. Salem, Massachusetts

Next up, we’ve got Salem, Massachusetts. I’m a total history nerd, so stepping foot in the town of the infamous Witch Trials would be an absolute dream come true. I’m here for all the spooky vibes, from witch museums to haunted walking tours, and let’s not forget all the witchy, witchy shops. I just know I’d be feeling all sorts of magical energy walking down those cobblestone streets. Plus, I’ve been told the fall season there is chef’s kiss. 🍂💀

3. New Orleans, Louisiana

Ah, New Orleans! This city has my heart already, and I haven’t even visited yet. Between Mardi Gras, the mouth-watering food (hello, beignets!), and the haunted history, I’m so there. I need to see the parades, hear the jazz spilling into the streets, and maybe even take a little ghost tour or two. If there’s one thing I love, it’s a good mix of party vibes and mystery, and New Orleans seems to have that perfect balance. Plus, it’s the only place where you can wear feathers, beads, and sequins any time of the year and call it “fashion.” 🙌

4. Seattle, Washington

Okay, here’s the thing: everyone tells me I’d fit in perfectly in Seattle, and I’m curious to find out if that’s true! From what I hear, it’s a city full of creative, laid-back folks who love their coffee almost as much as they love their nature. And if there’s one thing I can appreciate, it’s a city that has both vibes and views. The Space Needle? Yes, please. The local coffee shops? I’m already making room in my suitcase for a few extra lattes. And let’s not forget all the art, music, and that lovely Pacific Northwest rain. I’ve got a good feeling about this one.

5. Austin, Texas

Next on the list is Austin, Texas, and let me tell you, I am so ready to experience this city’s legendary music scene. My dream is to see a live Austin City Limits performance (yes, I know it’s on everyone’s bucket list, but it’s on mine for a reason). From what I hear, the live music scene here is unreal, and I want to be front and center, soaking up the tunes. Plus, Austin is known for being quirky and eclectic, and that’s my vibe all the way. Throw in some of that famous Texas BBQ, and I’m basically living my best life.

6. Orlando, Florida

And last but definitely not least: Orlando. Yep, I’m a big kid at heart, and no list of mine would be complete without a stop at Disney World. There’s just something about the magic of the parks that gets me every time. The castles, the characters, the rides—basically, I want to live out my Disney princess fantasy in real life. Plus, Orlando has so much more to offer with Universal Studios and other attractions, so I’d definitely be in full-on theme park mode from sunrise to sunset.

Why These Cities?

Okay, so maybe these cities are the popular picks, but there’s a reason for that, right? They’re all unique, bursting with culture, history, and experiences that make you want to keep coming back for more. Whether I’m catching a Broadway show, exploring a haunted town, or eating my weight in beignets, these places just feel like they have something to offer. Plus, they all promise to add a little extra magic (and a lot of fun) to my life.

So, what about you? Which cities are on your travel bucket list? Let’s swap dream destinations in the comments! I’m always up for discovering new spots to add to my list. ✨

Are you more of a night or morning person?

Honestly, I’m neither a morning person nor a night owl. I’m an afternoon person through and through.

My sweet spot hits somewhere between 1 PM and 8 PM, when my energy finally decides to show up to the party. That’s when I’m brimming with motivation, actually ready to tackle my to-do list, and fueled by just the right amount of coffee to feel like a real functioning human.

Mornings, though? Absolutely not. I’m up at 6:30 because work demands it, but mentally I don’t feel alive until around 12 or 12:30. Those early morning posts you see from me? Just know I’m sitting at work, forcing myself to wake up, staring at the clock like it personally offended me. My body is present, but my brain is still buffering.

And nighttime isn’t much better—I can’t fall asleep until midnight because my overactive brain refuses to shut up. It’s like, “Let’s think about everything that has ever happened… ever.” So yeah, being a night owl doesn’t fit either.

But the afternoon? That’s when everything aligns. My brain wakes up, my mood evens out, and I can finally be productive. That’s my prime time.

Anyone else have peak hours that show up fashionably late?

What technology would you be better off without, why?

If I had to choose one piece of technology I’d be better off without, it would be my phone. And before you think I’m being dramatic, hear me out—I’m not saying phones aren’t useful. In fact, that’s the problem. They’re too useful.

My phone is the first thing I grab in the morning—before I’ve even remembered my own name—and the last little glowing gremlin I look at before drifting off to sleep. It’s my alarm, my calendar, my entertainment hub, my camera roll of questionable selfies, my map when I’m lost (which is often), and my endless fountain of “news” I didn’t even ask for. Some days it feels like I’ve packed my entire life into one tiny rectangle of light. And oh boy, does it know how to tug at my attention—pulling me in a hundred different directions even when absolutely nothing important is happening. It’s notifications I never needed, scrolls I didn’t mean to start, and screen time I definitely didn’t mean to spend.

But the funny thing is… whenever I accidentally leave my phone behind (usually because my brain decided to take the morning off), something magical happens. The world gets quieter—in a soft, comforting, “I can hear myself think again” kind of way. I notice sunlight. Birds. The sound of my own thoughts. Time seems to slow down, like it’s finally stretching its legs after being scrunched under a pile of apps.

Without my phone in hand, I feel more present. More grounded. More… me.
It’s wild how a few hours away from a screen can make real life feel so much richer.

I’m not saying I need to break up with my phone. I’m not ready for that level of drama. But I am learning that maybe our relationship could use a little space—like separate bedrooms but emotionally supportive. A few healthy boundaries. A little less clinginess from both sides.

Would I be better off without it entirely?
Maybe.

But would I be better off putting it down more often and living a little more offline?
Absolutely.

So here’s to being present. To quiet moments. To mornings that start with sunlight instead of screen light. And to cups of tea that stay warm because I wasn’t distracted by the glowing rectangle yet again.

Easy. My top three pet peeves are basically just ✨personal space violations✨ and customer-service trauma in disguise.

1. People who walk painfully slow in front of you. Bonus points if they form a wall of humans so you can’t get around them. Some folks really think they’re in a dramatic slow-motion scene.
2. People who stand way too close in line. Why are you breathing on my neck like we’re in a Regency romance? Back up!!! I genuinely miss the COVID-era 6-feet rule. Let’s bring that back, because personal space should always be the standard.
3. People who argue with employees about store policies. Maybe it’s because I’ve only ever worked customer-service jobs, but nothing makes my eye twitch faster. The employee didn’t make the rules—they’re just trying to survive their shift.

Do you trust your instincts?

Do I trust my own instinct? Absolutely not.

I second-guess everything — big decisions, small choices, everything in between. My mind runs a hundred scenarios at once, convincing me I’m already doing it wrong before I even try. It’s exhausting, and half the time, I just end up listening to everyone else because I don’t trust my own voice.

Even when I want to follow my gut, doubt seeps in. I analyze, worry, and spiral until nothing feels right. Trusting myself feels like a luxury I can’t afford, like I’m constantly borrowing confidence I don’t have.

And yet… admitting it is at least a start. Recognizing that I don’t trust myself — that’s the first step toward maybe, someday, learning how

What’s your favorite month of the year? Why?

February, obviously. 

Like—hello?? It’s my birthday month and has Valentine’s Day, so it’s basically the universe rolling out a pink, sparkly red carpet just for me. And living in SoCal means the weather is always giving “cute and sunny,” even though it’s not exactly bikini weather. It’s usually super mild and perfect for exploring, taking cute pics, and just vibing. Honestly, February feels like one long, adorable celebration and I’m out here thriving like it’s my own personal holiday. 

What is your favorite place to go in your city?

My fave spot in my city? Hilltop Park in Signal Hill, for sure. The view is insane—you can see basically everything. I go up there to chill, catch sunsets, and honestly any time someone’s like “you should see the meteor shower/star night tonight,” that’s exactly where I’m heading. It’s my go-to little escape spot to just vibe and look at the sky doing its sparkly thing.

What’s the first impression you want to give people?

I hope that the first impression I give off feels like a cozy spark—warm, slightly chaotic, and truly alive. I want others to feel they can laugh with me, share a moment of eye-rolling, and still experience a sense of complete ease and acceptance. I can be unpredictable in ways that add fun to life, always in a manner that feels safe—like a soft blanket draped over a pile of colorful cushions. My aim is to create an environment where people feel they truly belong, even if I’m a little wild or unorthodox. A blend of comfort and surprise—that’s who I am.