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Taking Classes, Taking Naps, Taking Myself to the Beach

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So… is it really summer break if I’m still turning in essays and prepping for online classes? Technically, no. But mentally? Emotionally? Spiritually? I’m calling it a break anyway. Because honestly, I’m tired — and even if it’s just a few days of breathing room, I’m going to treat it like the summer I deserve.

The Final Stretch — One More Essay to Go

Right now, I’m finishing up my last assignment of the semester — an essay due June 18. Once I hit “submit,” I’ll officially be done with this round of classes.

It’s wild how that deadline feels both so close and also so far away. I’m pushing through the end-of-semester fog with caffeine, music, and the promise that after this one final hurdle, I get a few days to actually breathe.

Because… yeah. On June 23, I start my online summer session and that runs until August. No real break. Just a breather. But I’ll take it.

No Real Break… Just a Breather

It’s only about five days between classes, but I’m going to protect that time like my life depends on it.

I know it’s not a full summer off, but even just having some flexibility makes a difference. I’ve been on go-mode for months, and even a few slow mornings or chill afternoons will help reset my brain. 

Morning Shifts = Afternoon Freedom

One thing that is helping: my work schedule shifted, and now I’m working in the mornings. That change has been lowkey life-changing.

Having my afternoons open means I’m not rushing from one thing to another, and I finally have space to rest, study, or just exist without always watching the clock.

It’s also opened up time for something I’ve been saying for two years now…

The Beach Dream (Third Time’s the Charm?)

Every summer I say I’m going to the beach. Every summer, it somehow never happens. But this year? I’ve got mornings free, my afternoons aren’t slammed, and I’m making it happen.

Even if it’s just a quick trip, I need sand, waves, and that salty air in my life.

I don’t need a whole vacation — I just need a few hours where I can sit in the sun and feel like I’m not behind on 50 things. This beach day is more than a plan. It’s a mission.

Redefining “Break” as a Tired College Student

If you’re in community college or taking classes year-round, you already know: traditional summer break isn’t always a thing. But that doesn’t mean you can’t rest. It just looks different.

Rest might mean sleeping in on a random Tuesday, sipping an iced coffee in silence, or watching a comfort show without feeling guilty. It’s not about doing nothing — it’s about doing what fills you. That’s what I’m leaning into this summer.

My Summer 2025 Mini Bucket List

This isn’t the summer of big trips or wild schedules. It’s the summer of balance — between work, school, and moments that feel good. Here’s what I’m hoping to do:

  • ✅ Submit that final essay by June 18 (then exhale deeply)
  • ✅ Hit the beach (finally!) — this is the year I follow through
  • ✅ Chill after work without guilt — slow afternoons are underrated
  • ✅ Do my Paint & Sip night — I’ve been meaning to do one for ages
  • ✅ Spend time with my niece — she’s taking a summer math placement class, and if she does well, she’ll start middle school in 7th grade math! So proud and excited for her
  • ✅ Visit my parents in July — can’t wait for some family time and that familiar comfort. Plus my dad agreed to take me to the new Superman movie!!!!!
  • ✅ Start summer classes feeling a bit more refreshed — because we’re still grinding, but we’re pacing ourselves now

A Break on My Terms

No, this isn’t the kind of break where I toss my backpack in the corner and not look at a syllabus for three months. My summer session goes through August 8th, and then I’m right back at it when fall semester starts on August 26, 2025. But it is a break in the ways that count: I’m slowing down where I can. I’m creating time for the things I’ve put off. I’m prioritizing peace, even in small doses.

So yes — I’m still in school, still working, still tired. But I’m also claiming summer, one beach day, one Paint & Sip, and one iced coffee at a time.

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I’m the party planning committee

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Hector’s 30th birthday is just around the corner—can you believe it? We only have two weeks until the big celebration, and I’m so excited! I’ve decided to throw a “Death to His 20s” murder mystery dinner party. I found a fun party pack online because, honestly, I have no idea how to set up a mystery like that myself. I’ve been to escape rooms and played Clue, but creating everything from scratch felt a bit overwhelming. So, a pre-made party pack it is!

I was torn between a couple of companies, including one called Night of Mystery, which has amazing reviews. In the end, we chose Master of Mystery because it fit our budget better, but I think both options are fantastic! I gave Hector a few choices, and we ended up with a circus theme, which I love. I’m pretty sure I can convince him to do some fire-breathing and magic tricks for us! I know it’s his party, but I have a feeling he’ll be our main source of entertainment! 

I’ve found some really awesome party tips on both sites, especially for decorating and food ideas. At first, I had a ton of faire food ideas bouncing around in my head, but then I became a bit indecisive (surprise, surprise!). After considering many options, I’m excited about the menu I’ve put together for the party! We’ll have a fun hot dog bar, some delicious pulled pork sandwiches, and a cute little concession stand. I got the idea for the hot dog bar from my niece’s first birthday, and it’s super easy to set up! You just cook the hot dogs and lay out the buns for guests to help themselves, letting them create their own unique creations. I’ve found that if it has a fun name, nobody will mind that it’s just hot dogs! Plus, we all know his family can be a little picky!

I’ll also have a variety of toppings available, along with chili and nacho cheese on the side for anyone wanting to whip up a tasty chili dog—this option is always a crowd favorite!

As for the concession stand, it will be a colorful table filled with all kinds of snacks, sodas, chips, mini water bottles, and yummy cupcakes. This way, the main food stays separate from the snacks that everyone can munch on throughout the day. I have small menus that I will print out and display next to the food.

I’m so excited because my decorations are finally coming from Amazon! I know we’re supposed to boycott them, but I couldn’t resist the affordable options and the promise of quick delivery. I even got a photo prop. However, I did come across this adorable jumbo-sized popcorn bucket made of cardboard—it’s priced at a jaw-dropping 50 bucks! Seriously, who can believe that for a painted cardboard box? Instead, I’m taking matters into my own hands! Hector thinks I’ll spend the same amount by the time I gather all the materials, but I’m determined to prove him wrong! Stay tuned for updates on my DIY adventure!

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Welcome Spooktober

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Ah, Spooktober 1st. Spooky season has begun.

I can’t believe it’s finally time to grab a bag of your favorite Halloween candy and put on a spooky movie.

School is in full swing, and I need something to look forward to.

I look forward to crisp, cool days after this heatwave -it’s killing me. I mean, California changes temperatures; it never changes season, but this humid 90-degree weather needs to stop. I haven’t done much decorating yet, but trust that I will.

I wished I lived alone. I would love to decorate with candles and pumpkins all over. Not very frightening, I know, but I’ve never been a scary girl.

I want to romantize this fall and live a life I love.

my fall bucket list is basic and that means its do.

  • Paint pumpkins
  • Make caramel apples
  • Visit a corn maze
  • Eat pumpkin bread
  • Make my own PSL
  • Plan a fall picnic
  • Explore a cemetery
  • Make cute spooky meals agian
  • Rewatch Gilmore Girls
  • Roast pumpkin seeds
  • Make a pie from scratch
  • Make fall flavored ice cream
  • Watch Its the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown
  • Go star gazin
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New Month, New Mindset

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I hope the start of the month inspires you!

I always look at the beginning of a new month as a fresh start. You can start over every morning, but today is a new month to conquer your goals. There are so many lessons, changes, and beginnings waiting for us.

This month Im leaning toward believing that things will work out, and if they don’t, that’s not for me anyway. We must embrace the changes and struggles that happen in our life. Think of things you would like to do better and more for others, yourself, or change during this new month. Sometimes it will be hard to accept change; other times, it can be easy, but don’t fight it. Keep moving forward, and you will push through it.

It’s never too late to become who you want to be. I hope you live a life that you’re proud of, and if you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start over.

-F. Scott Fitzgerald

Go into this new month with great expectations and
determination.

I hope everyone goes into this month loving and safe. Remember, you are human and will make mistakes, but how you respond to those mistakes makes you who you are. We are all a work in progress; all we can do is keep trying.

I believe in you.