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Which fictional world would be the most fun to vacation in?

Narnia was the first thing that popped into my head, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that’s probably not what I actually want for a vacation because I would literally just want to stay there forever.

Then I thought of Naboo because it’s gorgeous and peaceful, which sounds pretty perfect. But then I remembered that most of it was filmed in Spain or Italy, so if I saved enough money, I could just go visit those places in real life. And aside from that one scene, we really don’t know that much about Naboo anyway.

Then I thought about Doctor Who, and I finally made my decision: Darillium, famous for its Singing Towers. Except then I remembered that a single night there lasts 24 Earth years. So… probably not, because I’d come home and literally everyone I know would be elderly or dead.

Hector was like, “Wow, I’m surprised you didn’t say Oz.”

And I love The Wizard of Oz, but when do we actually get to see Oz as the wonderful, peaceful utopia it’s supposed to be? It feels like I’d have to go before the Wizard gets there, but then I wouldn’t get to see any of my favorite characters, like the Tin Man or the Scarecrow.

I even started thinking about Kingdom Hearts worlds. I would LOVE Twilight Town because of the constant sunsets, but it’s not exactly the safest place. Destiny Islands would be paradise, but as much as I’d love to treat it like a beach resort, I like sightseeing. I like going out to eat when I’m on vacation. I need things to do.

So after thinking about this way too much, I decided that Genovia from The Princess Diaries would probably be my dream vacation destination.

Because honestly, Genovia in the movie is basically exactly what I want from a vacation. It’s beautiful, green, European, and ridiculously picturesque. You have the palace, the little streets, the countryside, the gardens, the fountains, and all these cute places that make it feel like a fairytale without actually being a fantasy world where I have to worry about being eaten, cursed, kidnapped, or accidentally sent 24 years into the future.

I’d spend a week there exploring the city, eating at cute little restaurants, walking around, visiting the palace, and taking in all the scenery. And yes, I would absolutely be looking for the places Mia visited because if I’m going to Genovia, I want the full Princess Diaries experience.

I also love that Genovia is supposedly somewhere in the general vicinity of France, Spain, or Italy. It has that perfect European setting that feels both familiar and magical. It’s basically the kind of place where I could spend a week pretending I’m the main character in a cheesy early-2000s princess movie.

Honestly, Genovia might be the safest choice for me. Because apparently my first instinct with every fictional vacation destination is figuring out how I’m going to permanently relocate there.

If you had to get a tattoo right now, what would it be and why?

I had two Disney tattoos all planned out, and technically, one of them was the 1997 animated movie Anastasia, which wasn’t originally Disney. But I guess it counts now since Disney owns Fox! 😂 I had everything set up: my tattoo artist, my appointment, and even my rate. I was completely ready to get it done.

Then I got pregnant, and those tattoo plans were put on hold. The second tattoo was going to be Star Wars themed—a little battle droid with the words “Roger Roger” underneath it. I still think that would have been such a fun tattoo!

The reason I wanted these tattoos is because I eventually want an entire sleeve filled with things that have shaped me and incorporated themselves into who I am as a person. Disney was a huge part of my childhood, and so many of those stories, characters, and memories helped shape who I became. So, having pieces of that represented on my skin feels really meaningful to me.

How did you meet your significant other?

I originally met Hector in high school, but there was obviously zero attraction happening then. We were just two people who happened to go to the same school and knew of each other.

Then, when I was 23, we somehow crossed paths again—but this time through Tinder. Yep. Good old-fashioned online dating.

Although, I’m pretty sure at some point we collectively decided it sounded better to just say we “reconnected through a mutual friend.” Which isn’t technically a lie because we do have mutual friends from high school. But the truth is much less romantic: we swiped right on each other.

And somehow, it actually worked out.

It’s funny looking back because after I had left California and eventually moved back, I definitely wasn’t expecting to end up with someone from high school. If you had told me when we first met in school that years later, after I’d left and come back, I’d run into him again on a dating app, marry him, and build a whole life together, I probably would have laughed.

So much for having a cute “how we met” story. 😂

What’s the last movie that made you cry?

The last movie that made me cry was Hamnet, because I had read the book and then decided to rewatch the movie. And obviously, knowing what was coming did absolutely nothing to prepare me for it.

But before that, it was The Sheep Detectives, which honestly caught me completely off guard. I was not expecting to get that emotionally invested in a movie about sheep, but apparently that’s where we are.

Lately, though, I’ve been avoiding certain movies like Voicemails for Isabelle, Girls Like Girls, and Remarkably Bright Creatures. And I’m sure there are more sitting on my list that I’m conveniently pretending don’t exist.

Because I KNOW these movies are going to make me cry, and I just don’t think I can handle crying at 8 months pregnant. I’m already emotional enough without voluntarily putting myself through a two-hour emotional breakdown.

At this point, I need movies that are funny, mildly entertaining, and emotionally safe. If the main character loses someone, gets sick, finds an old letter, reunites with a long-lost family member, or has any sort of beautiful emotional realization, I’m OUT. I have a baby to grow and enough hormones to deal with.

What’s a conspiracy theory you actually find believable?

I’ve always found conspiracy theories fascinating because they make ordinary things seem suspicious. And, honestly, there’s one conspiracy theory I genuinely believe: mattress stores are money-laundering fronts.

Think about it. How can there be so many mattress stores when you rarely see anyone actually buying mattresses? You can drive down a major street and somehow find multiple stores selling essentially the same giant rectangles of foam and springs. Yet they stay open, often with enormous showrooms and almost no customers. Where is all that money coming from?

I know there are perfectly reasonable explanations. Mattresses have high profit margins, stores don’t need constant foot traffic, and people tend to replace mattresses infrequently. But that doesn’t stop my brain from connecting the dots.

Maybe I’m completely wrong. Maybe mattress stores are just legitimate businesses with terrible locations and suspiciously empty parking lots. But until someone convinces me otherwise, I’m keeping an eye on those mattresses.

What’s a moment when you realized you were officially an adult?

The first time I felt like a real adult was when I had to set up and pay my first utility bill. I remember feeling completely overwhelmed because I honestly had no idea where to start. I didn’t know how to set up utilities, what information I needed, when the bills were due, or even how I was supposed to pay them. It was one of those moments when I realized that being an adult comes with a lot of responsibilities that nobody really teaches you about.

After figuring it out, I felt proud of myself. It may seem like a small thing, but learning how to manage my own bills made me feel independent and responsible. It was definitely a learning experience, and it taught me that sometimes being an adult simply means figuring things out as you go. That first utility bill was a small step toward becoming more confident and independent.

What’s a thing you wish schools actually taught?

I wish schools still taught home economics. There’s something about watching kids leave high school and realizing that some of them genuinely don’t know how to do basic adult things that makes me think, maybe we should bring this class back.

I know the argument is that it’s the parents’ responsibility to teach their kids how to be functioning adults. And, to a degree, I completely agree. As a parent, it will be my responsibility to teach my daughter how to take care of herself, manage money, cook, clean, do laundry, and generally navigate life.

But I would love for there to be a class at school that could teach my kid something I don’t know how to do.

Because that’s the thing about home ec that I think gets lost when people talk about it today. It wasn’t simply “here’s a recipe, now make dinner.” At least historically, these classes could cover a surprisingly broad range of practical skills.

Some schools had simulated homes, with mock living spaces, kitchens with multiple workstations and appliances, and sewing areas where students could actually practice the things they were learning.

There were practical labs where students learned things like setting a table, doing laundry, ironing, sewing, and constructing garments. You weren’t just sitting at a desk memorizing information. You were actually learning how to do things.

The curriculum could also cover food and nutrition, including meal planning, baking, and cooking. There were lessons on clothing and textiles, such as reading patterns and operating a sewing machine. And there could even be lessons on child care, budgeting, and managing a household.

Now, obviously, some of the old curriculum is incredibly outdated.

I don’t need my daughter learning how to be a perfect housewife whose primary goal is to support her husband. And I definitely don’t think the solution is bringing back a class where girls learn to cook and sew while boys go off and learn something else.

I think everyone should take it.

Boys need to know how to do laundry. Girls need to know how to change a tire. Boys should know how to cook. Girls should know how to balance a budget. Everyone should know how to sew on a button, clean a bathroom, grocery shop, understand basic nutrition, and take care of a home.

And honestly, I’d love for the curriculum to go even further than the traditional home ec classes did.

Teach kids how to make a budget. How credit cards and interest work. How to read a lease before signing it. How to grocery shop without spending your entire paycheck on snacks. How to meal plan. How to do basic sewing and clothing repairs. How to properly clean different surfaces. How to read a nutrition label. Basic cooking techniques instead of just following recipes. Maybe even basic car maintenance and household repairs.

Because there are so many things we assume kids will just magically learn once they become adults.

And sometimes they don’t.

Not because their parents don’t care. Sometimes their parents weren’t taught either. Sometimes they’re working constantly and don’t have the time. Sometimes a kid grows up in a household where certain skills just aren’t needed often enough to learn them. And sometimes you simply don’t know what you don’t know.

That’s why I don’t see a practical-life-skills class as replacing parents. I see it as another resource for parents and kids.

If I can teach my daughter how to cook, great. If her school can teach her how to sew, budget, change a tire, understand a lease, or safely use a power tool, even better.

I don’t want to recreate 1950s home economics.

I want to take the useful parts of it, throw away the outdated gender roles, and create a modern “how to be a functioning adult” class.

Honestly, I think I’d sign up for it now. There are definitely things I still don’t know how to do.

What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do?

Artificial intelligence has become an incredible tool for writers, students, and professionals alike. I use AI grammar editors myself, and I appreciate how quickly they catch mistakes and improve clarity. But lately, I’ve started to wonder if our growing dependence on these tools is causing us to lose one of the most basic skills we were taught in school.

Grammar, spelling, punctuation, and sentence structure aren’t just arbitrary rules. They’re the foundation of effective communication. From elementary school onward, we’re taught how to write clearly so we can express our ideas, communicate professionally, and understand one another. Yet today, many of us type first and rely on AI to fix everything afterward.

The convenience is undeniable, but it comes with a cost. When software automatically corrects every comma, misspelled word, or awkward sentence, we stop paying attention to why the correction was needed. Over time, those skills begin to fade because we no longer practice them ourselves.

I’m not suggesting we abandon AI. These tools are incredibly useful for proofreading, editing, and catching mistakes we might otherwise miss. However, they should enhance our writing—not replace the knowledge behind it.

If we continue to outsource basic writing skills to technology, future generations may never develop the confidence to write well without assistance. AI should be a helpful editor, not a substitute for literacy. The ability to communicate clearly is a lifelong skill, and it’s one worth preserving, even in an age where artificial intelligence can write almost anything for us.