Buckle up because this is one wild ride you don’t want to miss!
Here are 5 things I learned by 27! This list may be shorter than my previous one of 24 things I’ve learned in 24 years! Incredible how even a few lessons learned can significantly impact our lives.
1. Not having a flat stomach doesn’t make you any less loveable.
I used to have an unhealthy relationship with my body, which seems silly now. It even made another human being! So, I’ve decided to stop being so critical of it. After all, my body is not the part of me that I want people to love.
2. Drink Water!
Stay hydrated and take care of your body – drink plenty of water when you wake up and before you sleep. Your body will thank you for it!
3. Take all the photos!
I listened to an ex who told me I was annoying because I always took photos. As a result, I stopped taking pictures, and now I regret it. My advice to you is to be that person who always has their camera out. Don’t hesitate to take as many pictures as possible, as each photo holds a unique memory that can be treasured forever. Remember, you might regret not capturing a special moment, but you’ll never regret having too many photos you can look back on and cherish.
4. It doesn’t matter what other people think.
I no longer care about the opinions of others. As we age, we tend to stop worrying about what others think, which is liberating. I am determined to pursue what makes me happy regarding my career, relationships, body, and style. In the past, I missed opportunities because I was too concerned about what others would think. However, as a content creator and influencer, I am building an entire brand and business, and I wouldn’t have come this far if I had cared about others’ opinions. It’s important to remember that people may judge you, but what matters most is your happiness, financial well-being, and overall sense of well-being.
5. Say “I miss you” and “I love you.”
People come and go, change and grow, and life happens. You may lose some people from your circle, but new ones will come. If you haven’t spoken to someone and miss them in a while, tell them. Chances are, they might miss you too. Expressing your feelings is essential, and you might rekindle a relationship that meant a lot to both of you. A good relationship with your family should always be valued.
So why the morbid title? While reflecting on my past, I realized something that sent chills down my spine. I used to think I wouldn’t make it past 20. Crazy, right? But wait, it gets even more intense. I had even flirted with the idea of becoming a member of the infamous 27 Club – a group of legendary musicians, artists, and celebrities who all passed away at the young age of 27. This harrowing list includes Jim Morrison, Kurt Cobain, Amy Winehouse, and Janis Joplin.
I am grateful to say that I no longer have any self-destructive tendencies. However, my recent birthday was quite a ride.
Initially, I wasn’t interested in going anywhere, but I changed my mind. However, I didn’t want my partner Hector to come along. Lately, I have felt like a total mess, mostly because I am unhappy in my current relationship.
I have already told Hector that I want to get married by the time I am 28 or 29 at the latest and have kids between the ages of 29 and 30. Even though I know that life is unpredictable, I can’t help but wonder why we have been together for so long without making any concrete plans for our future. I’m almost 30, and if I wait too long to have kids, there could be complications, such as a higher risk of pregnancy-related issues that might lead to a C-section delivery after the age of 35. Though I know there’s still time for me, it’s not always easy to get pregnant.
I want to avoid ending up like Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn, who were together for six years only to break up eventually!
And my friends aren’t funny, but they have a point: they say don’t let your boyfriend keep you from finding your husband. If he won’t commit to our future, then I may need to find someone else who is. However, it’s hard starting over.
Oh well, that’s not the point. I’m off-topic.
It appears that every February, I experience a pre-planned emotional breakdown. However, I am starting to realize that it may be due to my inability to manage my workload and getting overwhelmed with all the tasks that are due during the month. Even during my recent trip, for which I promise to upload the post soon, I had what can only be described as a tantrum. I am determined to figure out what is causing me to feel this way. Is it just burnout, or is there something deeper that I need to work on? Knowing myself, it is probably something deeper that requires my attention.
Let’s see what we learn this year!
