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My October 2026 Movie Lineup

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So, Hector and I decided a while ago to redo our 2023 list of 31 movies to watch in October! It was a mix of mostly horror and thriller movies that we either didn’t remember very well or had never seen before.

This year’s list is a little different. We kept some of the movies from the 2023 list, obviously took off the ones we watched that year and just didn’t feel like rewatching, and added a few new ones!

If we didn’t manage to get through the whole list before having a baby, I definitely don’t think we’re going to make it through with a newborn. But we’re going to try!

Also, I’m posting this a little late on the 3rd, so I included the three movies we’ve already watched this month. 

But here’s our list of 31 movies for October

🎃 Spooky Movies

Trick ’r Treat – Still haven’t seen it. Three years later. 

It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown – Even if Hector did see this in 2023, it’s a classic and needs to be watched every year.

The Purge – I’ve never seen any of this series. I was told to only watch the first one, so that’s what we’re doing.

Pet Sematary (1989) – I think this one is better than the remake. Nothing beats the original.

The Thing – I swore I had watched this. Apparently, I watched The Fog instead. I guess I wasn’t paying attention. 

The Amityville Horror – Just needed a rewatch.

Frankenstein – The Guillermo del Toro version. I already watched this when it came out and immediately fell in love with it. Anything Guillermo del Toro makes, I’m watching.

The Devil’s Backbone – Another Guillermo del Toro movie, but I’ve never seen this one.

Pan’s Labyrinth – Hector has never seen it. It’s also the 20th anniversary! Del Toro describes The Devil’s Backbone as the masculine “brother” — a ghost story set in 1939 during the final days of the Spanish Civil War — and Pan’s Labyrinth as the feminine “sister” — a dark fairy tale set in 1944 during post-war Francoist Spain.

Whatever Happened to Baby Jane? – I still haven’t shown this to Hector. Three years later. 

The Witch – Hector suggested this one since I’ve never seen it. But once I saw it was a Robert Eggers movie, I immediately asked who Willem Dafoe was in it because apparently he’s been in every Robert Eggers movie I’ve seen. 

Children of the Corn – Hector has never seen it.

🍂 Not-So-Spooky Fall Movies

For the not-so-spooky movies, just some basic fall movies:

Mona Lisa Smile – Or, as Hector calls it, the female version of Dead Poets Society.

Dead Poets Society – Obviously.

Good Will Hunting – I heard some kids nowadays say Will was autistic, but he’s not. He’s an underprivileged genius. And this is how I know media literacy is dead. 

Stepmom – Susan Sarandon and Julia Roberts. This movie is a masterpiece.

Twilight series – It’s time for the annual rewatch. I’ll be doing this one alone because Hector hates these movies. 

Silver Linings Playbook – I never once thought Jennifer Lawrence was supposed to be 30 in this movie!

Labyrinth – Hector has never seen it, and it’s one of my favorites. I actually kind of want to dress up as this for Halloween, but I can’t keep changing my mind about my costume. 

The Dark Crystal – Another classic childhood movie Hector never watched. And it’s perfect for fall.

The Witches of Eastwick – Who doesn’t love Jack Nicholson?

The Haunted Mansion — all 3 versions – The Eddie Murphy version, The Muppets Haunted Mansion made for Disney+, and the 2023 remake. Or the version that’s more connected to the ride? I don’t know. The one that came out a few years ago. 

👻 Movies We’ve Already Watched This Month

Resident Evil – It was good! As a fan of the games, I enjoyed it very much. But, I mean, it’s a Zach Cregger movie — did we expect it to be bad? 

The Sixth Sense – I’ve known the spoiler for this movie my entire life, so I never watched it. But it’s actually really good.

Cobweb – A movie that came out in 2023 that we always said we would watch but never did. I’m kind of mad we didn’t see it in theaters, but the ending kind of sucked to me.

And that’s our October movie list! 31 movies, a mix of horror, classics, fall movies, and movies Hector and I somehow still hasn’t seen.

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If I Had One Wish…

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The genie grants you a wish. What is it?

If a genie showed up and told me I could have one wish, I think I already know exactly what I’d ask for.

And okay, I guess this wish is technically a little bit for myself too, because I’d definitely benefit from it.

I’d wish for enough money to buy my mom the land she needs to have the family compound she’s always wanted.

And when I say family compound, I mean a BIG one.

My mom has always dreamed of having a big piece of land where my family, my sister’s family, my brother’s family, and my grandma could all live near each my mom—but not too near each other.

Like, we’re close enough to pop over for dinner, but not so close that everyone knows what everyone else is doing at all times.

She wants everyone to have their own house and their own space, but still be together. And honestly, I kind of love that idea.

She’s told us that if she ever had the money to do it, she’d put the whole property in a trust or something so that we could never sell it. It would just stay in the family. No one could decide 30 years from now that they want to cash out and sell their little piece of the family compound. Nope. It stays ours.

And I think what I love most about her dream is that it’s not really about having a bunch of land.

It’s about having a place where all of us always have somewhere to go.

Her dream is that we wouldn’t have to spend our entire lives working just to afford to live. We’d work enough to pay the utilities, our phones, and whatever else we actually needed, but we wouldn’t have to be constantly stressed about paying for a mortgage or rent or keeping up with the cost of living.

We’d just…live.

We’d have our own homes, our family nearby, our grandma close, and enough space that we wouldn’t drive each other completely insane.

And honestly, if I could give my mom anything in the world, I think that’s what I’d give her.

Not a mansion. Not a fancy car. Not some ridiculous amount of money just because I could.

I’d give her the land.

I’d give her the family compound she’s been dreaming about for years, and I’d make sure it stayed in the family forever.

Because if a genie is giving me one wish, I might as well use it on something that would make all of us happy.

And okay, maybe a little bit selfishly happy too.

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After the Chaos Comes Pumpkin Season

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What a month September was, huh?

I moved. I had a baby. I went to the ER for said baby. I recovered from an emergency C-section. I somehow survived all of that while also becoming responsible for keeping another tiny human alive.

So yeah.

September was busy.

But hopefully, that particular chapter of chaos is behind us because…

HAPPY OCTOBER!

My favorite month has arrived, and honestly, I feel like I’ve been waiting for this all year.

I always get the urge to suddenly become the most productive blogger alive once fall rolls around. Something about autumn makes me want to take approximately 47 pictures of a pumpkin, bake something unnecessarily complicated, rearrange my entire life, and convince myself that I am the kind of person who casually spends an afternoon making homemade soup.

Fall inspires me.

Or maybe I just really like pumpkins.

Either way, I’m leaning into it.

For me, joy is very much tied to this season. I love the coziness, the little traditions, the spooky nonsense, the food, the smells, the decorations, and basically every excuse to romanticize staying home.

And this year, I get to experience it all a little differently because I have a baby now.

So I’m excited about:

Celebrating Halloween in a new way.
Because apparently having a baby means I now have an adorable little Halloween accessory who cannot object to being dressed like a pumpkin.

Finding new things to do this autumn.
I want new traditions. New little adventures. New reasons to get out of the house and enjoy the season.

Cooking and baking.
My kitchen is about to become a pumpkin-flavored crime scene.

Making my pumpkin bread.
Obviously. This is not optional.

Carving pumpkins.
Because what is October without making a perfectly good vegetable into a tiny haunted house?

Putting the baby in a pumpkin.
I have waited my entire life for this moment. The pumpkin baby WILL happen.

And, of course…

AUTUMN-SCENTED EVERYTHING.

Candles? Yes.
Soap? Absolutely.
Lotion? Probably.
Something labeled “Warm Pumpkin Cozy Sweater Apple Cinnamon Woods” that smells nothing like any real thing found in nature? Put it in my cart.

September may have thrown me directly into the deep end, but I’m ready for October.

Give me pumpkins. Give me spooky movies. Give me hot chocolate. Give me baked goods. Give me crisp-weather energy, even if California refuses to cooperate.

I want the whole autumn experience.

And maybe, just maybe, I’d like October to be a little less eventful than September.

Please. I am begging.

Now, if you need me, I’ll be at home in my comfiest pajamas, surrounded by pumpkins, probably holding a baby, with a giant mug of hot cocoa in my hands.

Extra marshmallows. Obviously.

Because sometimes joy is the big stuff…

…and sometimes it’s just a warm blanket, a cozy cup of cocoa, and nowhere you need to be.

Here’s to a cozy, spooky, pumpkin-filled October.

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When Do Babies Get the Hang of Breastfeeding?

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More venting than anything, but I’m also genuinely looking for advice because apparently my baby has decided that my left boob is no longer accepting applications.

Recently, every time I try to get her to nurse from my left side, it turns into a whole struggle. When I offer her the right, she is immediately like, “Yep, this is the one,” and latches right on. But the left? Suddenly we have problems.

She’ll start crying, and even when she does finally put my nipple in her mouth, she’ll suck maybe once and then immediately break the latch. And then we’re back to crying, trying again, breaking the latch, crying some more… you get the idea.

So, genuinely, any advice for getting her to stop doing this? Is this something babies just do sometimes? Is there a trick to getting her comfortable with the other side?

And honestly, I don’t know. Ever since she turned two weeks old, she’s just been acting real weird.

She doesn’t want to take a bottle from Mommy, but apparently she’ll consider taking one from everybody else. Because of course she will.

And just when I think we’re starting to get some sort of schedule figured out, she changes it.

I swear, this baby is already keeping me humble.

I know she’s still a newborn and there really isn’t supposed to be a perfect schedule yet, but I would appreciate someone explaining to my brain that, because my brain would really like to know what we’re doing here.

So, breastfeeding moms: when did your baby actually get the hang of nursing? And has anyone else had a baby who suddenly decided one boob was acceptable and the other one was absolutely not?

Because I am currently being bullied by a person who cannot even hold her own head up.

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My 2021 October Bucket List Is Still Elite

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Back in 2021, I made myself an October bucket list, and honestly? Between then and now, not much has changed.

Apparently, past me knew exactly what she wanted from spooky season because I still love this list. I’m not even interested in reinventing the wheel. I’m just bringing it back for 2026 and actually trying to check these things off this year.

So, here is my 2021 October bucket list, resurrected for 2026:

  • Watch spooky movies — including at least one Vincent Price movie, The Bride of Frankenstein, Corpse Bride, The Haunted Mansion, Halloweentown, Halloween, and The Amityville Horror
  • Visit a haunted house
  • Go on a hayride
  • Make pumpkin cookies and pumpkin empanadas
  • Go to a pumpkin patch
  • Have a fall photo shoot
  • Carve a pumpkin
  • Bake a pie
  • Make hot apple cider

But as much as I love Halloween and all the spooky-season activities, if I’m being completely honest, what I really want is for the weather to cooperate enough that I can stay inside with a good cup of hot cocoa and watch Mickey’s House of Villains.

That’s it. That’s the dream.

Give me chilly weather, a blanket, hot cocoa, something pumpkin-flavored, and Mickey’s House of Villains playing on the TV, and I will happily cancel approximately 90% of my plans.

Five years later, I still want the same cozy, spooky, slightly ridiculous October experience. Apparently, I have not evolved. I have simply acquired more responsibilities.

And honestly? I’m okay with that.

Some things don’t need to be replaced just because they’re old. Sometimes you make a list in 2021, look at it in 2026, and realize, Yep. Still sounds like a damn good October.

Now I just have to actually do the things instead of making the list and calling that the activity.

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So Ready for Spooky Season

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You guys, we are on the countdown to SPOOKTOBER, and it’s so crazy to think about how different this year is going to be!

I’m already planning my outfit around the baby, and I have a bunch of posts planned for October that I’m so excited about. It’s kind of crazy knowing this year is cocktail-free, so the recipes will probably look a little different too! I want to try some fun things with Hector’s niece, and I’m really excited to bring his family into some of our Halloween traditions.

I’m also bringing back my scary/classic Halloween movie list from 2023! Hector and I are going to try to watch a movie every night of October. We’re still ironing out the details for that, but I’m really excited about it.

I’m just so excited that the baby gets her first Halloween—and that I get to experience my first Halloween as a mom. I can’t wait!

I’m really, really excited for fall this year. I love fall every year, but this year just feels a little different.

I feel like I’ve been waiting for this season forever, and now that it’s finally here, I just want to soak up every second of it.

What are you guys most excited for this October? Are you already planning your Halloween costumes or are you more of a last-minute person like me?

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Apparently, I Just Need to Eat

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What are your best healthy eating habits?

Crazy as this sounds, eating is actually my healthiest eating habit.

Before pregnancy and motherhood, I had been starving myself since high school. Middle school, if I’m being completely honest.

For a long time, I ate one meal a day. Once I started working and dating, I did start eating more because, well, dates involve food, and you kind of have to eat lunch when you’re working. But on my days off, I could easily stay in bed all day and not eat until around 6 p.m. I would actually get physically sick if I tried to eat before 10:30 a.m. on any given day.

Then there was dating, eating out all the time, and eventually moving in together. Hector and I were too lazy to cook, so fast food became a regular part of our lives. I went from being a 120-pound vegan with incredibly poor eating habits to almost 200 pounds and medically considered obese within about five years because my relationship with food had changed so drastically.

Then I got pregnant, and suddenly I had to force myself to eat. Add pregnancy cravings, food aversions, and all the other weirdness that comes with growing a human, and food became something I had to consciously think about.

And honestly? Between pregnancy and now postpartum, I have probably had 1,000% more cooked meals than I ever used to. I actually learned how to start eating at home so much more, and I’m genuinely grateful for that.

But now I’m back to barely eating again.

I have to force myself to eat, and it doesn’t help that I get up around noon. So breakfast is basically lunch, and most days I only eat that one time. Then, around 7 p.m., I have to remind myself to eat again.

I’ve realized that I actually have to give myself permission to eat.

I got so used to starving myself and treating food like something I had to restrict, control, or earn that eating doesn’t always come naturally to me. Sometimes I literally have to remind myself that I’m allowed to eat. That I need to eat. That I don’t have to feel guilty for feeding myself.

And now I’m at a point where I really want to reset my relationship with food again.

I want to take a break from fast food, sugar, coffee, and energy drinks and focus more on real, nourishing meals. Not because I want to restrict myself or starve myself again, but because I genuinely want to feel better and learn how to properly nourish my body.

I don’t want another diet. I don’t want another set of rules about what I can and can’t eat. I want to figure out how to feed myself consistently without turning food into something I have to fear, earn, or obsess over.

It’s honestly wild looking back at how complicated my relationship with food has been for most of my life.

I’m still trying to unlearn so many of those habits and figure out what it actually looks like to nourish myself. Apparently, after all these years, the revolutionary concept I’m working toward is simply eating.

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I found this on TikTok and somehow it actually works

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What are some life hacks that you practice?

Okay, aside from the first one, I don’t even know if I would technically call these “life hacks”. But #lifehack was basically a whole genre of my TikTok experience in 2021, so obviously I saved a million of them, and these are the ones that actually stuck.

Iced Coffee Cubes: This one is genuinely genius. If you have leftover coffee, freeze it in an ice cube tray and then use the coffee cubes in your iced coffee. So when they melt, your coffee doesn’t become sad, watery coffee. You’re welcome.

The 2-Minute Rule: If something takes less than two minutes to do, just do it immediately. Don’t tell yourself you’ll do it later because… you probably won’t. And my other rule is: put it away, don’t put it down. Because apparently putting something “down for a second” is how you end up with a pile of random stuff everywhere.

Have a Drop Spot: This has honestly changed my life more than it should have. Pick one spot in your house where you always put your keys, sunglasses, wallet, mask, whatever you need when you leave. And then actually train yourself to use it. When you’re running out the door, you don’t have to do that frantic “WHERE ARE MY KEYS?!” routine. You just go to the spot. Everything is there. It’s almost suspiciously easy.

Anyway, those are my very official, probably-not-actually-life-hacks. What’s a life hack you swear by? I need to know because clearly I’m still collecting them.

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Well, Apparently I’m Entering a Podcast Contest Now

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So, apparently I’ve decided to add “enter a podcast contest” to my list of things I’m doing with my life.

Because why not?

I came across a contest through TopHost where you can enter for a chance to win your own six-episode podcast. And obviously my immediate thought was:

Well, I have a lot of opinions and approximately zero qualifications to stop me.

So I signed up.

And then I discovered there’s another little detail I somehow missed the first time around:

There’s also a $25,000 prize.

Excuse me?

I thought I was just entering a contest to potentially get six episodes of a podcast. Suddenly there’s twenty-five thousand dollars sitting over there like, “Oh, hey, you could also completely change your life if you happen to win.”

Which is both exciting and hilarious because let’s be realistic.

I’m probably not going to win.

I don’t have a massive following. I’m not some established podcast host with hundreds of thousands of people waiting for my next thought. My little corner of the internet is very much still in the “hello, is anyone actually reading this?” phase.

And honestly?

That’s okay.

I’m not entering because I think I’m destined to win. I’m entering because I want to try.

That has been a weird theme of my life lately.

Trying things before I feel ready.

Applying for things when I’m not sure I’m qualified.

Putting myself out there even when there are people who are objectively more established, more experienced, or have way more followers than I do.

Because if I automatically disqualify myself every time I think, “Well, they probably won’t pick me,” then I’m making the decision for them.

And I’m getting really tired of doing that to myself.

Do I think I’m going to walk away with $25,000?

No.

Do I think I’m going to magically become the next big podcast host because I filled out an application?

Also no.

But could I potentially get six episodes of a podcast and an opportunity to prove that I can actually do this?

Absolutely.

And that’s pretty freaking cool.

There’s something freeing about trying when you’ve already accepted that you might not win. You get to enjoy the experience instead of turning it into a referendum on your worth.

Maybe someone with 500,000 followers wins.

Maybe someone with years of podcasting experience wins.

Maybe someone I’ve never heard of wins.

Or maybe, by some completely ridiculous plot twist, they look at my application and think:

Yeah. Her.

I’m not counting on it.

But I’m also not going to count myself out before I even give myself a chance.

So here I am.

Entering a podcast contest.

Possibly competing for $25,000.

With my very modest little following.

What could possibly go wrong?

At the very least, I get to say I tried.

And honestly, I’ll take that over never entering at all.

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Happy National Daughter Day

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Happy National Daughter Day to the tiny human who has been running my life for exactly 11 days.

You came into this world TWO WEEKS early because apparently you already have places to be and things to do. And because you like to keep things interesting, your grand entrance ended in an emergency C-section. Nothing like a little ✨surprise✨ surgery to kick off motherhood.

Then we made a little detour to the NICU, because why start with the easy setting when we could just go straight to hard mode?

And somehow, that was only the beginning.

Your umbilical cord fell off at FIVE DAYS OLD. Five. The books said 8–10 days… some even said closer to two weeks. But clearly, you looked at those timelines and said, “Nah, I’ll do my own thing.”

Then there’s breastfeeding. Let’s just say neither of us knew what we were doing, and apparently there is no manual for getting two people who have never done this before to successfully figure it out at 2 a.m. There have been tears, frustration, snacks, and a lot of Googling.

And then came your first doctor’s appointment, where I learned that motherhood apparently means NOT obsessively monitoring a 7-pound human for every possible weird noise, movement, sneeze, and poop.

You’ve been here for 11 days and already have me questioning everything.

But somehow, through all the chaos, you’ve also completely stolen my heart.

You may be tiny, dramatic, stubborn, and already refusing to follow instructions—but you’re my tiny, dramatic, stubborn girl.

And I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Happy National Daughter Day, baby girl. Eleven days down. A lifetime to go.

… and somehow I’m already wondering how I’m going to survive the teenage years.