I initially thought it would be fun to share 28 things I’ve learned in my 28 years, but then I had a lightbulb moment—why not revisit what I wrote four years ago when I turned 24? Spoiler alert: I don’t vibe with all of it anymore! While I still agree with a lot, some of my experiences have really shifted my perspective.
If you’re curious about my original list, I’ll drop the link for you to read it! But for now, let’s chat about what I don’t quite agree with anymore. Honestly, I feel like many of those lessons could be summed up or combined.
First up: I don’t owe anything to my younger self.
You know what? I’ve come to realize we do owe something to our past selves! Our future selves deserve the freedom to make choices, and it’s so important to recognize when it’s time to let go of dreams that no longer fit. Change is inevitable, and while growth doesn’t happen overnight, self-discovery is a lifelong adventure. So, why not be kind to your past self? I fully embrace every mistake I’ve made, as they’ve shaped who I am today!
Next, let’s talk about everyone has baggage.
I definitely agree with this one, but I like to say everyone has a story! Calling our experiences “baggage” feels a bit negative. Each person has their own feelings, beliefs, challenges, and past events that mold their lives—some uplifting, some heavier. It’s all part of the journey, and I’ve really come to appreciate that!
Now, let’s dive into the exciting things I’ve learned:
Ask lots of questions!
Growing up, I was always a bit shy about asking questions because I didn’t want to sound dumb. But as I got older, something wonderful happened: I learned to embrace curiosity! Asking questions is one of the best ways to grow! Stay curious and keep an open mind; you’d be amazed at what you can discover!
It’s okay to fail!
Failing isn’t the end—it’s just a stepping stone! Learn from it, pick yourself up, and keep moving forward. Don’t let setbacks hold you back!
Good things come to those who… make it happen!
You might have heard that “good things come to those who wait,” but I’ve learned that good things come from putting in the effort! Work isn’t just about paying the bills; it can be a gift! How we approach our work really reflects how we showcase our lives. I’ve found so much joy in embracing the amazing talents I’ve been blessed with to excel at my job!
Isn’t that exhilarating? Let’s keep growing and learning together!
