What technology would you be better off without, why?
If I had to choose one piece of technology Iād be better off without, it would be my phone. And before you think Iām being dramatic, hear me outāIām not saying phones arenāt useful. In fact, thatās the problem. TheyāreĀ tooĀ useful.
My phone is the first thing I grab in the morningābefore Iāve even remembered my own nameāand the last little glowing gremlin I look at before drifting off to sleep. Itās my alarm, my calendar, my entertainment hub, my camera roll of questionable selfies, my map when Iām lost (which is often), and my endless fountain of ānewsā I didnāt even ask for. Some days it feels like Iāve packed my entire life into one tiny rectangle of light. And oh boy, does it know how to tug at my attentionāpulling me in a hundred different directions even when absolutelyĀ nothingĀ important is happening. Itās notifications I never needed, scrolls I didnāt mean to start, and screen time I definitely didnāt mean to spend.
But the funny thing is⦠whenever I accidentally leave my phone behind (usually because my brain decided to take the morning off), something magical happens. The world gets quieterāin a soft, comforting, āI can hear myself think againā kind of way. I notice sunlight. Birds. The sound of my own thoughts. Time seems to slow down, like itās finally stretching its legs after being scrunched under a pile of apps.
Without my phone in hand, I feel more present. More grounded. Moreā¦Ā me.
Itās wild how a few hours away from a screen can make real life feel so much richer.
Iām not saying I need to break up with my phone. Iām not ready for that level of drama. But I am learning that maybe our relationship could use a little spaceālike separate bedrooms but emotionally supportive. A few healthy boundaries. A little less clinginess from both sides.
Would I be better off without it entirely?
Maybe.
But would I be better off putting it down more often and living a little more offline?
Absolutely.
So hereās to being present. To quiet moments. To mornings that start with sunlight instead of screen light. And to cups of tea that stay warm because I wasnāt distracted by the glowing rectangle yet again.